The Bitter Bag…

The New Year is upon us and I just want to know one thing, “What are you packing in your New Year’s bag?”

Throughout social media, I see people posting “New Year, New Me”; yet, they bring so much of last year’s negativity into the New Year.  Mind you, I do believe sometimes one must look at the old so as to see how to get to the new.  However, when allowing the old to linger, it poses a threat to the mantra “New Year, New Me”.  What about you can be new when you keep holding on to the old?

Bitter Bag Packing consists of the baggage such as toxic relationships (be it intimate or otherwise); lack of balance between planning and doing; and/or holding on to negativity (either towards self, others or both). There could be a myriad of things stored in your New Year’s bag that you do not necessarily desire to take into this New Year.  Unfortunately,we  sometimes have subconsciously compartmentalized and packed it away –instead of dumping the baggage all together.  (Disclaimer: I am no certified therapist, but I know a thing or two about being weighed down by unnecessary BAGGAGE!)  I suggest making a list of the Good vs. Not So Good things you have in your current 2015 bag.  Look at the list with strong intent to leave some things behind (preferably those things that are negative and/or out of your control), positively build on other things, and potentially add new and better things.

As we head into the New Year, I challenge

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you to pack light and comfortably because you then can open yourself up to so much more. 

“And no one pours new wine into old wineskins. Otherwise, the wine will burst the skins, and both the wine and the wineskins will be ruined.  No, they pour new wine into new wineskins.” Mark 2:22

Sincerely,

Your Restyled Mom…who is making room for God’s pouring into NEW wineskin.

 

MAC Lipstick Dupe List

I usually only post on Tuesdays (#TuesdayExchange) and on Thursdays (NEW on the blog), but THIS…your pockets will thank you & your makeup game will still be on “fleek”!

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ATTENTION!!!! I HAVE AN UPDATED DUPE LIST WITH TONS MORE ADDED AND ALL IN ALPHABETICAL ORDER! TO SEE THIS LIST CLICK HERE <– THIS LINK WILL TAKE YOU DIRECTLY TO THE DUPE LIST

Hello my lovelies! I first started this list for myself and then decided I better share it. I CANNOT take credit for these dupes. I have simply read or seen them online. I will link to who I can give credit on the ones I know. Others were found in blog comments or forums. I hope they’re useful for you!

If you know of others please add them to the comments and I will add them to the post!

I will keep this list updated as more are brought to my attention.

angel MAC Angel (Made popular by Kim Kardashian)
Dupes:
e.l.f – Classy

craving MAC Craving
Dupes:
Maybelline Color Sensational – Party Pink

cremecup MAC Creme Cup
Dupes:
Avon…

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My Love, Hate Relationship with…Gift wrapping (yeah, it was worthy of a post)

On this Christmas Eve 2015, I want to give you the top reasons I dislike gift wrapping. I mean I dislike it tremendously much -that’s the extent of my dislike!  I’ll just jump right into this thing…

#1. The paper never cooperates.

I think my gift wrapping paper secretly plots against me every year.  It crumples; it tears (in the wrong places); it just won’t fold right!

#2. Though not as exciting, a bag is easier. (Pretty self-explanatory)

#3. It never fails that I have to either hide in my closet to wrap gifts or wake up super early -before the little one can see anything.  Hey, we have an elf and Santa Claus running around this place, so she thinks.  Hence, I keep the magic going.

#4. Time, time, time. Gift wrapping is time consuming.

And #5…All that paper gets thrown away!  I know we could gently unwrap the gifts, but really?  The kids wouldn’t have any fun, which brings me to potato-stamp-insituthe “love” part of this gift wrapping thing.

I LOVE seeing the excitement and thrill the kids have when seeing their unknown goodies under the tree.

On this Christmas Eve, as you wrap that gift, it’s okay for you to hate doing this daunting task.  However, have more doses of your kids excitement than doses of the dislike of gift wrapping.

Sincerely,

Your Restyled Mom…who is all wrapped up…MERRY CHRISTMAS!

 

Tuesday Exchange (spotlight on…)

 

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Don’t mind the mess…RestyledMom is getting crafty. #ornamentwreath

On Tuesdays, I like to do what I call a #TuesdayExchange, where I share something I’ve read of other bloggers.  Today’s #TuesdayExchange is a bit late since Christmas is 3 days away and all décor should probably be up by now.  This is where I tell you my secret. I am like the scrooge of Christmas decorating. I get real ‘humbuggish’ when it comes to decorating –even as a child, I wasn’t too crazy about taking all that stuff out, putting it up, then taking it all down weeks later. So, at this point, better late than never; plus, I do it for my kiddo.  No need in passing this scrooge of décor on to her.WP_20151125_001 (2)

I decided to try out the Christmas wreath made of ornaments. While I liked lovepeaceandtinyfeet.com’s utilization of a wire hanger, I own no wire hangers.  This may be the direct result of watching that movie “Mommy Dearest” where the mom says, “no wire hangers”.  I doubt it, but sometimes, I like to self-diagnose –no matter how far-fetched the diagnoses may be.  Nevertheless, in place of the wire hanger, I used a Styrofoam wreath from Hobby Lobby.  I promise every time I go in this store, I feel like I need to purchase something.  Hence, I have this built into my latest budget.  I’m not real crafty, but I am trying to get there.  That may end up being a later post –showcasing some of my “I saw it on Pinterest but when I did it, it ended up looking like this…” type of post.Sight_2015_12_17_182819_135

WP_20151219_008I digress. Long story short, I did the wreath and added some letters (cut out from a brown box), painted and glittered by my kiddo.  We now have “JOY” over the mantle, and I’m beginning to re-think this decorating thing –as long as it doesn’t require me to paint and glitter crap treasures 😉  Check out lovepeaceandtinyfeet.com for her Christmas wreath, as well as her latest post regarding “Sprinkles are for Winners”.  Interesting read, in which I agree, but that’s another #TuesdayExchange.

Sincerely,

Your Restyled Mom…who is spreading #Joy

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The #Joy of being a #restyledmom

New Year, New You…One Word (that will change your life)

Last year, my mom introduced me to the YouVersion app and some of the reading/devotional plans offered. The one reading plan that stood out the most was a 4 day reading plan entitled One Word That Will Change Your LifeIf ALL of me, which is composed of being a single mom, dateless in Dallas, living on a self-imposed budget, can have her entire essence of existence changed with one word, then honey this was what I needed!

The goal of this particular devotional is to have one word, for the entire year, that you live out.  This one word is to allow one to focus on God’s intent for his/her life through that one word.  As I worked through the 4 day devotional, I prayed, asking God what my word should be.  For the 2015 year, my word was Finish.

So often, I found myself feeling cluttered, anxious, overwhelmed and down right exhausted.  I felt as though I was getting nowhere in my life, agonizing over where I thought my life should be versus where it actually was.  After reading this devotional, I realized there were so many things I would start but leave unfinished; hence, I had no closure  (i.e. DIY projects, thorough closet cleaning, to do lists that never really got done).  I don’t know about you, but for me, when I have so many open action items, I get a little antsy.  I begin to feel as if everything is falling out of whack and needs to be placed back into some semblance of order -quickly

Some of these things may sound simple to you.  However, it can range from incomplete projects right down to complex relationships needing some type of resolve -even if that resolve is to end the relationship all together.  I’ve already begun praying about my one word for the 2016 year.  I’m thinking discipline, but the big guy (Jesus) and I are still in chats.

As we enter this New Year, I strongly recommend taking the time to commit to this year long journey.  I must admit, although I did not finish everything, I did finish most things and have had resolve in other areas of my life.  I feel less anxious and more connected to God and the destiny he has for me.  What do you think your One Word should or will be?  Share in the comments below or Tweet your One Word here.

Sincerely,

Your Restyled Mom…who is looking forward to the Journey of #OneWord

New Year, New You...in One Word

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